What MATTERS MOST in your relationships

Who you are is likely who you will always be…unless you make a deliberate change. Likewise, your spouse’s basic personality will likely not change either.

Lazy now, Lazy always…inconsiderate now, inconsiderate later…affectionate now, affectionate forever.

Identifying compatible traits in potential friendship or love relationships is more impactful than you might think. Based on a study by the University of Edinburgh, researchers found that over a lifetime, basic personality traits, such as: self-confidence, conscientiousness, perseverance, stability of mood, originality and the desire to learn - do not change much over your lifetime.

When looking for relationships, remember that looks fade and physical prowess will diminish but basic personality traits will remain forever.

Choose wisely...

Coach Pamela

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